Butt plugs can feel intimidating the first time you shop for one, but they do not need to be mysterious, scary or reserved for people with years of experience. The right plug is simply a body-safe toy designed for slow, comfortable exploration, and choosing well mostly comes down to three things: material, shape and size. At Naughty But Nice, we believe Pleasure Is Self-Care, which means pleasure should feel informed, relaxed and completely on your terms.
This Australian guide is here to help you understand the difference between common butt plug styles, what each material feels like, and how to choose a plug that suits your body and confidence level. When you are ready to browse, you can explore the NBN butt plugs collection for beginner-friendly shapes, premium materials and discreet delivery options.
Types and styles of butt plugs
The classic beginner butt plug has a tapered tip, a gently rounded body and a flared base. That shape matters. The tapered tip helps with gradual entry, the widest point creates a feeling of fullness, and the narrow neck helps the toy sit comfortably once it is in place. For a first plug, look for simple shapes without dramatic ridges, oversized bulbs or heavy texture.
Vibrating butt plugs add an extra layer of sensation through external or internal rumble. They can be fun for solo play or partnered play, but beginners may prefer starting with a non-vibrating plug first so they can focus on pressure, breathing and comfort. Once you know what size and shape feels good, vibration becomes easier to enjoy.
Jewelled plugs are popular because they look beautiful and feel a little luxe. Many are made from metal or glass, which means they can feel firmer and heavier than silicone. That weight can be pleasurable, but it also means you should pay close attention to size. A small jewelled plug is usually more beginner-friendly than a large decorative one.
Long-wear plugs are shaped for comfort over time, often with a slimmer neck and smoother base. They are not automatically a beginner product, though. Comfort depends on the base shape, the material, the size and your experience level. If you are new, think short sessions first, then build slowly if your body enjoys it.
How to choose your first butt plug
Start smaller than your ambition. This is the golden rule. A plug that looks modest online can still feel surprisingly full in the body, especially if anal play is new for you. Beginner-friendly plugs usually have a slim tapered tip, a manageable widest point and a base that is broad enough for safety but not bulky between the cheeks.
Choose shape before features. Extra vibration, texture, weight and sparkle are all fun, but comfort is what makes the experience good. If you are unsure, pick a smooth silicone plug with a clear taper and a comfortable neck. Once your body understands the sensation, you can explore heavier materials, remote control options or more decorative styles.
Think about how you want to use it. For solo exploration, a simple silicone plug and a quality water-based lubricant are a great starting pair. For couples, you might prefer something with a remote, a jewelled finish or a shape that feels comfortable during foreplay. For longer wear, prioritise a slim neck, smooth finish and a base that sits comfortably against your body.
Materials and safety
Body-safe silicone is one of the easiest materials to recommend for beginners. It feels slightly softer and warmer than glass or metal, and it pairs well with water-based lubricant. Avoid pairing silicone toys with silicone-based lube unless the manufacturer clearly says it is compatible, because some formulas can affect the toy surface.
Glass and stainless steel are firm, smooth and easy to clean. They are also excellent for temperature play if you know what you are doing, but firmness means sizing becomes even more important. With rigid toys, there is less give, so choose a smaller size than you might choose in soft silicone.
Always choose a plug with a proper flared base. This is non-negotiable. Anal toys need a base that prevents the toy from travelling fully inside the body. A safe base may be T-shaped, round, wide or looped, but it needs to be wider than the toy body and comfortable enough to hold onto or sit against the body.
Use plenty of lubricant. The body does not self-lubricate anally, so lube is not optional. Apply more than you think you need, go slowly, breathe, and stop if anything feels sharp, painful or tense. Pleasure should feel like curiosity and comfort, not pressure to push through.
Top picks at NBN
For beginners, look for a small silicone plug with a smooth taper and a comfortable neck. This style is forgiving, easy to clean and less intimidating than heavy or highly textured designs. Pair it with a water-based lube and give yourself time to explore without rushing.
For a gift or confidence boost, a small jewelled plug can feel playful and premium while still being approachable. Choose a smaller size if the material is glass or metal, because the extra firmness and weight can make the sensation feel more intense than the dimensions suggest.
For couples, a vibrating or remote-control plug can add anticipation and shared control. The best choice is still the one that fits comfortably first. Features are only fun when the foundation feels good, so prioritise size, base shape and material before choosing the most exciting extras.
Delivery, privacy and shopping with confidence
NBN makes intimate shopping feel simple, private and judgement-free. Orders are packed with care, checkout is discreet, and Brisbane customers can access fast local delivery options when available. If you prefer to browse slowly, the online store gives you room to compare size, material and style before choosing.
Ready to find a plug that feels right for your body and experience level? Browse butt plugs at Naughty But Nice, add a quality lube, and start with the option that makes you feel calm, curious and confident. The best first toy is not the biggest or flashiest one. It is the one you will actually enjoy using.