Butt Plugs for Beginners — Size, Material & Safety Guide

Pleasure is self-care. If you're curious about anal play but not sure where to start, this guide is for you. Butt plugs are one of the most accessible, comfortable ways to explore — and there's zero shame in learning what feels good for your body.

At Naughty But Nice, we believe that the best sexual experiences start with knowledge, comfort, and confidence. Whether you're flying solo or with a partner, this guide covers everything you need to know about choosing your first butt plug.

What Is a Butt Plug?

A butt plug is a toy designed for anal insertion. Unlike other anal toys, butt plugs stay put thanks to a flared base (the wider part that sits outside your body). They come in different shapes, sizes, and materials — and finding the right one for you is the key to enjoying the experience.

The beauty of butt plugs? You can wear them during other activities, use them solo for pleasure, or enjoy them with a partner. Many people love the fullness sensation and the unique pleasure they provide.

Butt Plug Sizes: Starting Small

Size matters — and smaller is almost always better when you're starting out. Here's the beginner logic:

Extra small (under 1 inch diameter): Perfect for first-timers. Think of these as training plugs that let your body adjust without pressure.
Small (1–1.5 inches): The sweet spot for most beginners. Comfortable, satisfying, and not intimidating.
Medium (1.5–2 inches): For those who've explored a bit and want more fullness. Don't rush here.
Large (2+ inches): Save this for when you know exactly what you love.

Pro tip: If a plug feels too big, it IS too big. Pleasure should never involve pain or discomfort. Your body will tell you when you're ready to progress.

Materials: Safety First

What your butt plug is made from matters for comfort, safety, and durability. Here's what you need to know:

Medical-grade silicone: The gold standard. Body-safe, easy to clean, flexible, and long-lasting. If you're buying one plug, make it silicone.
Borosilicate glass: Smooth, non-porous, and luxury-feeling. Great for temperature play (run it under warm water for sensation). Requires careful handling to avoid breakage.
Stainless steel: Heavy, smooth, and built to last forever. Perfect if you like a substantial feel. Also ideal for temperature play.
Avoid: Jelly rubber, PVC, and unlabeled materials. These can contain toxins and break down over time.

Golden rule: Only buy body-safe toys. Your body deserves premium materials.

Types of Butt Plugs

Classic plugs: Tapered and smooth. The standard choice for comfort and ease of insertion.
Vibrating plugs: Add gentle vibration for extra sensation. Great once you're comfortable with the basics.
Plugs with tails or decorations: For roleplay or aesthetic fun. Usually silicone or fur-friendly materials.
Plugs with jewelry: Some feature gems or crystals at the base. Beautiful and functional.

Start with a classic silicone plug. Once you know what you enjoy, you can explore variants.

How to Choose Your First Butt Plug

Ask yourself these questions:

Am I exploring solo or with a partner? Solo exploration is more relaxed; with a partner, communication is everything.
What size feels comfortable? Go small. You can always progress. Starting too big leads to soreness and frustration.
What material appeals to me? Silicone is the safest bet. Glass and steel are premium choices if you want to invest.
Do I want vibration? Skip it for your first plug. Master comfort and fullness first.
What's my budget? A quality beginner plug runs $30–60 AUD. It's an investment in your pleasure.

Top Picks at Naughty But Nice

We've curated a collection of beginner-friendly butt plugs that hit every sweet spot: safety, comfort, and pleasure.

Check out our full butt plugs collection for detailed specs, reviews, and comparisons. Each product includes real customer feedback so you know what to expect.

Our favourites for beginners:

Silicone starters: Body-safe, affordable, and perfect for learning what feels good.
Glass classics: If you want to invest in something that lasts forever and feels luxe.
Steel essentials: For that substantial, high-quality feel.

Safety Tips Every Beginner Should Know

Always use plenty of lube. Water-based or silicone-based (depending on your toy material). Lube isn't optional — it's essential.
Go slow. Rushing leads to discomfort. Take your time.
Never force it. If it doesn't fit comfortably, you need more lube or a smaller size.
Clean before and after. Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Always.
Listen to your body. Pain = stop immediately. Pleasure should never hurt.
Chat with your partner. If you're exploring with someone, communicate every step. Comfort builds confidence.

Your Pleasure, Your Timeline

There's no rush. Some people love butt plugs immediately; others take time to warm up to them. Both are completely normal. The goal is to explore safely, comfortably, and at your own pace.

Remember: pleasure is self-care, and self-care looks different for everyone.

Ready to Explore?

Head to our butt plugs collection and browse by size, material, and price. Each product comes with full specs and customer reviews. If you have questions, our team at any of our Brisbane stores (Cannon Hill, Capalaba, Margate) is here to help — no judgment, just genuine advice.

And if you're in the city and want to explore in person, we offer same-day delivery across Brisbane. Order by 2 PM for delivery the same day.

You've got this. Start small, use plenty of lube, and enjoy learning what feels amazing for your body. 💜